Either one would work in the kitchen. I think it is more of a personal choice. I prefer tile in the kitchen.

How to maintain hardwood flooring ? Does Hardwood flooring last ? Marble flooring is better or wooden flooring ?

I'd go with either another neutral (gray, cream, etc) or a rustic look that wouldn't compete with the floor but would harmonize with it... (You don't show your TV, but be sure to get something significantly wider, for balance, if possible.)

Your choices don't flow well to me. The flooring in your photo is pretty (very dark...are you okay with it showing every footprint, smudge, and dust bunny? If so, that's fine). From all of your options there I would do white cabinets with the Himalaya White granite. But you said ignore the granite. :) I would go for the gray cabinets with white quartz everywhere in that case, but personally I'd worry about gray cabinets being very dated in a few years. Is there another quartz option that you could pair with the white cabinets that is light in color and maybe has some movement, like LG Bianco Drift?