Paint the cabinets a warmer white w/the same undertones to match that tile. it's not bad (the tile/counter). those cabinets are just, well,,,this is why we discouraging glazing.
I'd say grab a sample of Chantilly Lace to start with, bring it home and paint it on one of the doors. (do a quick primer under the sample part to get a true reading). Simply White would be another. It's one of the most neutral whites.
the other option is to do the cabinets in a warm gray. that would nix out any of those pink tones.
this one is River Relections, BM. more of a taupe gray
Pale Oak, or the Taupe...maybe do a two tone, uppers/lowers.
oh,,and please remove and replace that cabinet hardware. do some handles instead of pulls, at least on the doors.
that yellow butcher block isn't helping. anyway to redo that one? at the very least, sand it down and stain a darker, non yellow tone.
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