Option 4. I would not have more than 2 different cabinet finishes. Darker, grounded look for the base and island, with lighter, airier look for the uppers would balance the room.

Hello Waheeda, The tile looks great. Usually designer tiles have a glossy finish and they are easier to clean. Having said that, we prefer a cleaner surface with minimal lines for a kitchen backsplash. We have used a similar one recently from Kajaria. Ask for DCM 3105 at your nearest tile store. For you query for grouting, they require much lesser grouting as any other regular tiles. The design is made in a manner that they look like small glazed tiles put together. Thanks, Nitin CORNERSTONE DESIGNS Bangalore.

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Engineer, There is nothing as best in colors. It's a personal choice. IMHO, Wooden grains look better than monos in kitchen. Thanks, Nitin Cornerstone Designs, Bangalore.