A soft, warm grey shade would look lovely, and can be as dark or light as you want. A warmer shade will work with the brown stained wood floor, and the grey will complement the black granite. You could have an undertone of green, blue or tan if you didn't want a pure grey. And it would look nice with any silver metal hardware, either polished or satin/brushed, so you could choose pewter, chrome or nickel. It would still work with white trim too.

I love dark shades but from my experience oil stains on a dark shaded cabinets in kitchen specifically are more prominent.

Hi,  Go for Jet black granite for counter top. It would look classy with your white ceramic wash basin and beige wall tiles. And go for above counter wash basin.

Hi Joan Greetings from Aura! As you described two things here like property surrounded with trees and lake so here is the option. coastal blue for exterior walls moulding is perfect whites roof top is mud grey I hope it helps. Regards Ruchi Head designer Aura Interiors Studio Raipur Chattisgarh India 🇮🇳