Can you possibly post a picture of your kitchen?

Tile backsplash is usually chosen last, after the cabinets, flooring, countertops, etc…..are already installed.

It is impossible to help you choose the best tile for your kitchen without seeing the tile photographed up close and actually in YOUR kitchen; not a photo of someone else's kitchen with different lighting and other design elements then yours.

Hope that makes sense.

Would definitely need to see your kitchen before venturing to give an opinion. Context matters.